The hyper independent woman is the most likely to be single, unhappy, unmarried, and lonely. Why do we ignore this very true fact in our community?

Everything is so backwards in our society and most women won’t come to this realization until their 30’s when they look around and see men their age dating and marrying younger woman who can provide them a loving home a family and decent meal. Life is simple.

The denial…

I’m also speaking as a woman of God who values building family and community over being slaves to the monetary system. I also never insulted anyone but stated facts, if you are hyper independent you are in fact one of the above of not all.

It’s only the hyper independent women who get offended when we point out their very reality and it would be selfish of me to ignore that women single and 35+ are unhappy because they fell into this realization a bit late.

But this goes back to values as a community because of all races the black family unit is suffering the most and the black community owns the least business in America because we deny the very reality that love is law + family is business.

& it’s nothing wrong with growth because I was once silly enough to consider myself an alpha woman but I came to the realization that my strength is needed elsewhere and that’s building community with my family + sisters(that are in denial)

There are also careers that women can run and enjoy from home that allows them to still cultivate motherly skills and stay close to their children and family. I run several that my partner helped start for me because he didn’t want me second to another boss, we work together.

I’ll just stick to talking about herbs + plants. Subscribe to my email list linked in bio and blessings to you all it’s too early, drink some tea.

Not me coming back from my home pilates for house wives and mom class to see you all saying married women aren’t happy, I’m surrounded by happily married women who always tell me how lucky I am to have come to this realization at 24.

It’s funny because half of the class been married since my age while the other half is just now embarking on that journey, and both groups will tell you that this a very true reality in our community and breaking away from the denial is probably the hardest part. Seriously.

Women 30+

Women 30 and under.

Women 30+ and single

Married Women

Please answer these poles and share them to your friends, also please don’t allow people on the internet to bring out nasty energy in you, be open to conversation, if you’re confident in who you are no outside opinion should trigger you this much

Do you base your decisions off of self or with the children and generations under us in mind? If the answer is for self you’re not on frequency I’m on to even have this conversation with me. Move on.

Ok final poll because it was pointed out I didn’t phrase the last question well.