Do you want to know why calling women "birthing units" is so f*cked up? Imagine your mother was AWFUL. I mean, f*cking horrendous. Abusive, destructive, neglectful. So bad you don't want to call her "my mother," let alone mum. What would you call her?

Birthing unit. It's not an inclusive term, it's an insult. A way to minimise the mother/child bond. To dismiss it. To say it doesn't exist. Isn't important.

And why does "v*gina haver" piss me off? Imagine you have an ex wife. But you f*cking hate her. The only good you can see that she brought you was somewhere warm and wet to stick it. What might you call her?

V*gina haver? Only females have v*ginas, but calling us v*gina havers diminishes us until our only meaning and status is as a warm, wet, pregnable hole. Grim.

Is there a single one of these terms that have been substituted for the word "woman" that could not be spat out as a term of hatred? "F*ck that one, she'll never understand our ways, she might have had her womb removed but she's a menstruator through and through."

"I went over to her at lunch. She had her headphones in. I was only being friendly, she was so rude to me. But turns out she's a genital fetishist. Yeah. She actually exclusively likes p*ssy. Can you believe it? Gross."

"Mother? She's not my mother. She was a f*cking incubator." "Oh her? She's just a cis woman, yeah, a bleeder. Not one of us." It's a joke to say that these terms are inclusive. They're dehumanising. Literally, removing from us women the status of human. And why?

If you don't know why by now, you haven't been paying attention.