ULTIMATUMS.. I get dms from Men saying “Ma,she said I should see her Parents else…”.. “She said we should just marry, she will manage”.. I’ll advise you same way I’ll advise the men in my Life.. DO NOT ALLOW A WOMAN,FORCE YOU INTO MARRIAGE.!

Same woman that told you she was ready to “manage”, will go ballistic if things don’t align the way she expects .. Some will play the card of “suitors are coming”,allow her marry one of those suitors Her fears are valid but remember, the burden of providing will rest on you..

-“Don’t worry, I’ll feed us till you can stand on your feet” -“I’ll sponsor the wedding (don’t allow her pay her bride price herself) -“I won’t allow the wedding stress you, just marry me” When children come,you will be reminded how you have been failing as a Man

She can easily cut you off and leave with your children since she’s providing for herself Am I asking you to tie down someone’s daughter? NO! Am I shaming any babe for desiring marriage? NO If she cannot wait, don’t blackmail her to stay. A woman is never void of suitors..

Do you need Millions to marry? NO If you can afford to pray bride price and FEED according to your pocket, it’s fine IF she chooses to support you,that will awesome but plan WITHOUT factoring her money to preserve your RESPECT! I know you’re scared of losing a good woman but..

when the disrespect starts rolling in, you’ll bite your finger.. She’s likely to refuse you sex & will nag alot Good women will always exist, the question is.. WHAT’S HER TOLERANCE LEVEL?? HOW LONG CAN SHE WAIT/ENDURE? #veetalks