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Stirling Cooper
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Nov 25
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3 reasons why ugly dudes get hot chicks:

You’ve seen it. You’re in the bar. This incredible girl walks in. She’s clearly a high-value woman. But who’s that by her side? Some below average dude whose arm she’s holding? “How on earth did he manage that?” Fellas, today is a lesson in women’s perception.
The biggest problem guys have when trying to get with high-level women? They misunderstand what women really want. Women are not stupid. They are acutely aware of what they want in a man. But most dudes haven’t got a clue what this is.
It all starts with the first impression. So, today, I’m going to show you the 3 things women first notice in a man. These are the keys to getting the attention of a high-value women. Are you ready?
1) How you carry yourself Your body language speaks volumes about: • Your status • Your security • Your confidence • Your self-respect • Your ability to protect a mate Women are masters of picking up on this. They can instantly read you and know what you're about.
If you’re slouching, scratching your arm, and avoiding eye contact, women will notice. If you’re calm, cool, and collected, women will notice. Being well dressed and jacked is important. But a woman’s main attraction comes from how she feels around the guy.
2) How you treat others This is relates to social status. There are three tiers to this: • Low status • Equal status • High status If you’re constantly trying to please people and laughing at every joke? You're displaying low status behavior.
You should treat others with at least equal status. However, if you want to attract a women, you need to adopt a slightly higher-status mindset. This doesn’t mean being a dick to her. It means walking through a room knowing you’re the man... and acting like it.
3) How you act when you see her What happens when you lock eyes with a beautiful woman mid-conversation? Many guys panic. They look away instinctively. They think "she thinks I was staring at her." They beat themselves up for how awkward it was. Not guys that get girls.
Instead, lean into it. Make a moment of it. These are perfect opportunities to: • Show attraction • Build sexual tension • Create an enjoyable interaction Now, there is a scale here:
Instead, lean into it. Make a moment of it. These are perfect opportunities to: • Show attraction • Build sexual tension • Create an enjoyable interaction Now, there is a scale here:
Showing no desire in these moments makes a woman feel insecure. Showing too much desire makes her feel like you're desperate. You want to come back to your higher-status mindset. You’re having a natural, relaxed, organic moment. Go over, talk to her, and start a conversation.
Yes, women notice fancy clothes and a stacked physique. But the #1 thing they find attractive is how they feel around you. Believing in yourself gives confidence that oozes out into the world. High-value ladies can’t resist a man who treats himself like a high-value man.
3 things women first notice in a man: 1) How you carry yourself 2) How you treat others 3) How you act when you see her
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Stirling Cooper

Stirling Cooper
@StirlingWisdom

3 reasons why ugly dudes get hot chicks:
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